Arjun, he was just like any other guy or it would be more more appropriate if I say he was like any other person. Yeah I do not appreciate any gender discrimination 😛 . He was a good guy, I mean he had some peccadilloes but he was better better than most of us. He had friends, family like everyone else or like most of us at least. Then why I am
writing about this Arjun guy if he is no special, because of his one habit. He had this one habit of over-thinking. He used to think a lot about his life, about his friends, about so many things, and the worst part was he was never been able to share his thoughts, his feelings to anyone. And that made him realize how alone he was. I could have used the word ‘lonely’ which makes perfect sense here, but still i used the word ‘alone’ because Arjun had lot of people in his life but still he couldn’t share his feelings to anyone. Apparently he was surrounded by people but actually he was surrounded by his ‘unshared’ feelings and his loneliness.
Why I am so alone? Look how happy other people are, Why I am so different from them?”, he asked god. He always use to blame god for his loneliness. One day he decided that he was not going to be alone any more. He had a friend, he told her everything about his habit, his feelings, his loneliness. In reply she said “I have the same problem, I have been through this period” This idea of sharing helped him but not as much as he expected, but now atleast he knew that he was alone but not the only one. He moved on with the determination to eradicate his loneliness. He was no more reserved, he was not shy any more about his feelings and his problems. He shared everything with everyone he was close to. And he was surprised every time when people told him that they been through the same problem or they
too think that they are alon
e even after having so many people around them. If he would have told me about his feelings, I would have replied the same as other people did.
The thing is we all feel lonely at times and think that other people are lucky because they are not alone. There are times in our lives when we think like Arjun. Its not about right or wrong, it’s about life…..
ARJUN, HE WAS JUST LIKE ANY OTHER PERSON……….
I don’t know I am alone or there are other people also who have this stupid or I would say this habbit of being ‘generous’. Ok let me elaborate, sometimes you crave for something and when you get that thing knowing the fact that someone else want it too, you give that thing to that person. I mean seriously ‘is that stupid???’. Well I personally I think it is, but as I have this habbit so I cannot criticise any more about it.