I don’t know I am alone or there are other people also who have this stupid or I would say this habbit of being ‘generous’. Ok let me elaborate, sometimes you crave for something and when you get that thing knowing the fact that someone else want it too, you give that thing to that person. I mean seriously ‘is that stupid???’. Well I personally I think it is, but as I have this habbit so I cannot criticise any more about it.
Picture a situation where there are two guys, both are facing same problems in their life at same point of time, but there is a small difference, first guy has a friend to whom he share all his feelings, all the problems he is facing while our second guy, he has feelings too but he has no one to share with. now after this observation do you think there will be a different mental approach while facing that problem with those two guys. I really don’t know why but I think they will approach differently. My point is we all get feelings, we face different things every day, we got emotions and we all look for a person to share these feelings, experiences and emotions. But not everyone has this friend or a companion to do so. If you are guessing that I belong to this group of unlucky people, then unfortunately you are right. So this post is basically my personal experience. And to share my feelings via this post is not my choice.There are times when you get so full of thoughts, feelings that you try to inflict it on others even when they don’t want to listen to you, yeah we have to go through these situations as well. Sometimes some people call us reserve but the truth is we are not reserve by choice, we are reserve by force. So basically this whole problem starts at a situation where you feels that you can’t share something with anyone and it ends badly when you start sharing everything with anyone. And that’s when people starts ignoring you. They don’t want to be around you.
We all face obstacles everyday in our life no matter who we are or from where we belong. But Indians, my god they always come up with something using their whimsical mind to face these obstacles. I am also an Indian and I’ve been observing the nature of indians for quite a sometime now. I made a lot of conclusions but yesterday I saw something that blew my mind, that made me laugh & made me proud as well. Before I go further I would like you to see this picture of an Iphone5
This must be a bit difficult for you to delineate what’s going on in this pic. Let me tell you, there was some problem with the charger of this I5 so a friend of mine kept a jar of pickles on the phone to put some pressure on data cable so that it can work. Now this phone costs more than 50 grand in India but to save 1 grand on charger he used his mind and pickles, whivh hardly costs 50 bucks. Money is not an issue here all I am trying to convey you is how we indians use our mind.